Some people think that all in life is a competition. For instance, when they are drawing or painting, they always compare themselves with the great masters of painting, and many times they feel themselves as losers. And when other people are drawing, (and mostly the other people don't draw as good as them) they compare these other people with the great masters of painting too, and most times they criticize them and tell them to drop this hobby because they say they make themselves ridiculous.
People
that despise those who are not genius can't assume the painting or
any other hobby just as a pleasure, or just as a way of enjoying...
or expressing oneself... or being in life. They think that all the
people have the same sense of ridiculous they have, because they
consider that all the things we decide to do in life must be tools to
win, to beat, to look, to captivate, to dazzle... They live as if
life was a showcase where the genius should be contemplated and
admired, and they think that people who are not genious should hide
their works in a drawer to not make themselves ridiculous.
This
attitude shows a deep and strong self-worship, because they dream
about hovering over people, and therefore they criticize those ones
who dare to show they works. They feel the works of the other people
as threats. They feel that the people who enjoy practising the same
hobby than them are competitors or opponents, and first of all, they
despise and compel them to drop their hobby to feel safer.
But
life is a learning process, and children know that the only good
attitude in learning process is not fearing ridiculous, and daring to
show and to enjoy our works and our progress. No child feels bad when
he or she makes a mistake in his or her first words. And he or she
hasn't even learnt to read or write yet. Life is too short to be shy
or to be slave of our fears, or even worse... to be slave of the fear
to make oneself ridiculous. If we fear, we are not free. If a little
child feared to start to speak, he would never start to speak. Life
is too short to listen to those who think than life is a competition
and a fight to dominate or being dominated.
Anyone
is capable of anything, if he or she dares to chase his or her
dreams, and if he or she spares no effort to fight against his or her
own despondency, and if he or she specially does their hobby to enjoy
and not to be conceited.However, it's not always that easy to ignore
the harsh words of those who despise our work and our happiness; but,
if we want to be free, we must forget them and their poor words.
They usually are envious and jealous, and they know it. They know
their own weakness and they feel sad for it. The attack is the way
they try to compensate their painfull feeling. Their mainly envy our
freedom and our happiness.
On
the other hand, there always will be harsh people, moron,
unsensitive, intolerant... Bring it on! But our life is ours, and we
must be free. At long last, some sweet and foolish things make our
life worth, the simple and foolish daily things that bring back
magic to us. No matter if we are not the best painters, the best
writters, the best singers or actors... We must paint, write, sing,
play, have a bath in a lost corner of the nature (like you can see
above in the photo)... The life is made of all the foolish things
that make us happy.
So...
go ahead!

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